When we think of a step parent, generally it is not so good. We sometime think of Cinderella, her horrible step mother and terrible step sisters.
But every story doesn't happen like this. Some think the step family is great! But what are some ways you could make a softer entrance into a childs life? Try being some what of that favorite aunt or uncle first, until you have a better or good relationship.
*Don't be so quick to punish. All the bigger punishments should be done by the blood mom or dad.
*it's not always more important to be interesting as it is to be interested. Be involved in your step child's likes and interests. Look for opportunities to let them tell you about things they enjoy. Most people who are interested in something, love talking about that thing.
*make fun memories together. They may feel sad about leaving old memories behind. You may not be able to bring there old memories. But you can help them find joy in the place they are now.
Your goal should not be to replace anyone in their lives but to become a new person that they look up to and can tell that you love and care for them.
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